from such great heights

when your mind’s made up

Posted in life by chapwoman on May 19, 2008

what are you afraid of? what are you looking for? what is it about her that makes you run? And her? And her?

Choosing someone to date shouldn’t be this difficult. You know exactly what you’re looking for, you’ve narrowed down the key characteristics, but you’re yet to make a move. We’re here at Cal Poly, one of the most (if not the most) Christian campuses in the state. Good Christian girls are practically scaling the walls in San Luis, but you’re yet to choose one. I really don’t understand.

Are you really afraid? Of what, exactly? If you can be friends with so many girls, why can’t you just date one of them? Why do you play this game of flirt, “phase” date, then drop her to find a new “girl of the moment?” I hate seeing you down, seeing you in a state of mopey-ness, seeing you staying in on a perfectly wonderful Saturday night.

I’m praying that you find her, the one girl you’ve been holding out for. God must be reserving her until you grow into yourself first and then grow out of your selectiveness. When your mind’s made up, I hope she knows how lucky she is, how important she is to be the one you’ve finally chosen. She’ll be the only one you haven’t serial dated then dropped the next day.

Why do I even care?  I’m just an item you’ve crossed off your to-do list.

C’est la vie,


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  1. crave20 said, on May 20, 2008 at 11:10 am


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